I'd like to thank everyone who responded to my previous post, either here or in email. I appreciate the support and offers of assistance.
The continuing emergency ended just a few hours after that post appeared. Not, however, in the manner I would have preferred. From the Newark Star-Ledger, last week:
Nancy S. Harrington, 69
Mrs. Nancy S. Harrington, 69, of Montclair died on Sunday, Feb. 10, 2008, at Columbia-Presbyterian Hospital in New York.
A funeral service will be held at 10 a.m. on Saturday, Feb. 16, at St. James Episcopal Church, 581 Valley Rd., Upper Montclair. A reception will follow. Friends may also visit with the family on Friday, Feb. 15, from 7 to 9 p.m. at the church. Arrangements are by the Hugh M. Moriarty Funeral Home, 76 Park St., Montclair.
Nancy was born in Detroit, Mich., on Feb. 25, 1938, the daughter of Robert and Zilpha Steele. Following graduation from Edsel Ford High School in Dearborn, Mich., she lived in Washington, D.C., Detroit and New York City. Before moving to Montclair in 1986, she and her family lived in Brooklyn and in Nyack, N.Y.
Nancy's vocational interest centered on the education of young children, a field that she worked in for most of her life. She will be remembered by a generation of children who attended St. James Pre-School in Montclair, where she taught for 20 years before retiring in 2006. She taught Sunday school at St. James Episcopal Church for 21 years, serving as the director for part of that time.
Nancy was an avid gardener, always eager to try out a new addition to her backyard garden or her window greenhouses.
Nancy is survived by her husband of 42 years, Preston Harrington; her son, Tom and wife, Carey, of Colorado Springs, Colo.; her daughter, Lisa and husband, Jeff Mead, of London, England; her son, Gerry and wife, Katey, of Forest Hills, N.Y., and her grandson, Andre. Her sister, Peggy, of Florissant, Colo., and brother, Gerry, of Anchorage, Alaska, also survive her.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. James Episcopal Church Pre-School, 581 Valley Rd., Upper Montclair, N.J. 07043.
I'm back home now and getting back to the regular cycles of my life. I'm still going through my email backlog, but should be getting back to everyone soon.






Mon, 02/18/2008 - 17:11
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, take your time getting back. And you know where to find us if you need any help with anything.
Mon, 02/18/2008 - 18:01
Sorry about your loss, Tom. I'm sure everyone will be quite understanding of your delayed responses. Be sure to take a break before diving back into things full-force.
Mon, 02/18/2008 - 19:16
Oh man, I'm sorry too. Of course I want to say something but don't know what to say, except to hang in there, and you've got lots of support out here if you need it.
Mon, 02/18/2008 - 20:37
My sympathies Tom. Having lost my father just this December I can definitely relate. It felt weird and somewhat wrong doing "normal" things afterwards, but sooner or later life gets back to normal.
Mon, 02/18/2008 - 21:00
Sorry to hear the bad news. Not sure what I can offer as some random person on the internet, yet I do hope the best for you. It is tough and going to be for a while, yet it's good to know that most people understand that and will give you what you need.
Take the time you need, don't rob yourself of that. Take care.
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